I generally cannot and do not get behind MRA whining, but for real, any woman who knowingly lies to a dude about a kid being his when she knows the kid isn’t or there is a chance the kid isn’t is a fucking selfish lying scumbag and nothing but. If a man knowingly chooses to raise/adopt a child who is not his? Good on him. If he is tricked and lied to? Well fuckin’ shame on her and yeah, heaps of contempt. There is no reason, no excuse, nothing that justifies that shit. A woman who pulls that crap is making the foundation for numerous relationships a big fat lie and causing all sorts of damage.
There is no defense for this. No defense, and no exucse, and any woman who pulls this shit is sure as hell makin’ the rest of us look bad. Period.