Okay, there are two now. The second one I read this morning after making my Oh FFS post about the night my dude friends living room became Sparta and you what, I’ll admit it… I laughed. And not in a ha-ha funny way but in a “wow, I obviously live on a totally different planet than these women live on” way.
I have come to the conclusion that such things must be absolutely true. I am not sure which is planet earth or whatnot, but yep, totally different planets. Granted, most of these women would prolly not be in a dudes living room when it turned into Sparta, or in some cases, at all, but hey, stick with me here…
I’ve never been quiet or shy about my thought that sex and aggression can be linked, to varying degrees, with some people. Some a lot more than others. I fall into the “more often than not” category. I tend to view sex as a sweaty, physical, primal, visceral thing (not “dirty”, but certainly all those words I just mentioned). I tend to think it is best when it is aggressive. I dig that. And my like of that sort of thing is notable and prevalent in any form of pornographic/erotic material I make; be it art, fictional writing, or yep, good old porn. The “vs” theme is rampant. But you know…
I don’t always see or have the female as the one who is defeated? I rather like things to be a win/win situation in that regard. Now, if you are of the mindset (as many of the women over there seem to be) that whoever ends up with a penis in them is the person who lost….well then…I am not sure what to tell you. If one views that as a sure sign of defeat….well, then we really, really are not from the same planet. I am sort of in the mindset that if the objective of the “fight” was sex, then the penis in them part actually is a sign of victory since well, that was part of the point in the end- to have sex (the het PiV kind, which is well, what I like, so what I put forth in my erotic/porny things). Hell, I mean anyone who has ever read the Martell stuff…shit, just because she often ends up with a penis in her, Zero is hardly an oft-defeated little victim now, is she?
And since I have determined that I am not from the same planet as these women, I will add the following. In all the “horrific” things mentioned over there where the women are so obviously just being defeated…dp, gangbangs, gagging…whatever….well, it is evident that the thought that no woman could ever welcome or enjoy that sort of a physical challenge is the rule of the day. No thought that a woman, after having engaged in all that, might stand up, smirk, and say “You threw your best at me and I am still standing whilst you all are sucking wind with cramps and just want to go to sleep.” Endurance factors in not at all when considering victory in “versus”. Outwit and Outlast are apparently reserved only for “Survivor”. And me, I guess, but hey, it is obvious I am not from the same planet.
Then again, in their defence, these women so alien unto me….well, one of the things the Patriarchy-as it were- has thrown at women for a long time is they are not supposed to be aggressive or competitive, especially with men. When it comes to that- well, I think a certain Tool There Of has done far better in shaking off that message Than Various Others Have. I’ll be aggressive and competitive with whomever I like so long as they consent to it, thanks.
And yeah, I do think it is hot. Even when I don’t “win”….I still win.
But of course there is no possible way any other woman out there could ever agree with me on that, right?