Archive for the ‘Kink/BDSM’ Category

So yeah, seems these days my brain doesn’t work unless someone else kicks it.  Today Hugo has a post up about BDSM- and as usual- the stereotypical assumption of male as sadist female as masochist seems to be whats what.  So after reading and commenting, I got to thinking about a post I had been pondering, [...]

In Defense of *Sadists

Posted: October 27, 2010 in Kink/BDSM

  (yeah, those are mine) Sooo, been out checking out what’s going on in Bloganistan since my…ok, since I dropped off the face of the earth and went native or whatever.  Anyhoo, I was over at Snowdrops and saw his post about Male Sadists, and have read a whole lotta stuff on BDSM here in [...]

Aiding and Abetting

Posted: October 20, 2010 in Kink/BDSM

So, I was guarding the homested last eve when this, well, dude I know showed up and, well…there were some law issues, and, well… Dude I so had some of you going there for a second, didn’t I?  Hahahha.  Okay, no, seriously, I have not lent any (knowing) assistance to any (known) felons or fugatives [...]

Uh huh…

Posted: November 12, 2009 in Kink/BDSM

BDSM. For those who make analogies between BDSM and sports, the analogy does not work since in sports violence is merely incidental, and is in fact something to be avoided as much as possible. The pleasure is not in the violence itself, but in the victory, whereas in BDSM the pleasure is in the violence itself. Furthermore, [...]